depressed and hurt, and you miss them. “What should I do to get my ex back?” becomes a
question you constantly ask yourself.
There are many websites, books, blogs, forums and even courses designed to answer the question,
what should I do to get my ex back? But common sense can really make a difference after a
breakup. And common courtesy can go long way toward healing your relationship.
If you’re preoccupied with your lost relationship, wondering “what should I do to get my ex
back?” then follow this simple advice. You’ll give yourself the best chance of getting back together with that special someone.
Don’t play games. This is very important, but unfortunately many people resort to this during
breakups because it gives them a sense of power. If you can make the other person think that you
don’t care, or you care more than you really do, you’re manipulating them and that can feel
great. But it won’t feel great for long.
Eventually you’ll realize that lying and tricking the other person isn't a good feeling. And
anything good that happens because of it will always be sullied a little because of the lie.
Some people play games where they pretend to be dating someone else, or they pretend to be in
love with someone else. This is a ploy to make the ex jealous. While it does work now and then,
other times it makes the breakup permanent because it backfires.
Your ex could be so jealous at the thought of you being with someone else that they want you
back. Or they could decide that since you moved on so quickly, you don’t really care about them
anyway. You have no way of knowing which way this ploy will work until it’s too late.
Don’t be mean. This holds true in any situation or any relationship, but sometimes the anger
around a breakup makes us act more viciously than we normally might. Even if you’re hurt, the
fact that you want to know, ‘What should I do to get my ex back?” shows that you’re ready to
forgive that person. If you couldn't, you wouldn't want your ex back, you’d be glad it was
over.
Now, think about how you've been acting. If you were your ex, would you look forward to
spending time with you or talking to you? Or would you dread each time? Do you shout and nag?
Even if you feel like raising all kinds of arguments, simply don’t. Work very hard at
controlling your anger and hurt, and being a person they can miss.
“What should I do to get my ex back?” Be on your best behavior and make your ex remember what
drew them to you in the first place. They’ll remember your good points and will miss them. Then
you’ll have a better chance of being able to get back together with your ex.